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The Rising Tide of Death on Our Streets

If you talk to anyone with day to day experience of dealing with young people in London today they will all tell you the same thing. The chances of a youth becoming involved in violent crime rises massively if there is no father figure in the household. No matter how loving and supportive a single mother is, she often can't impose the critical red lines on behaviour that enable boys to develop self-control. I'm not speaking with reference to the events last night in Ealing because we don't know any details. Also there are no studies to confirm what the professionals say because these days academic institutions shy away from research which is likely to generate controversy. However, we do know that there is a significant rise in fatherless boys occurring at the moment and this is coinciding with a sharp rise in knife crime. Unfortunately this is just the start of the rise and the problem is set to get worse if unchecked. The other issue is that the internet now allows rival gangs to communicate with each other and arrange confrontations — technology has made gang warfare more efficient. You can't put this genie back in the bottle. It also means that more police won't necessarily solve the problem. If fights can be arranged on encyrpted software even the best resourced force can't do anything about it. Tougher sentences are also demonstrably not going to work. We already lock up more people than any other country in western Europe and custodial sentences for minor offences just turns petty criminals into hardened ones. Higher tariffs for carrying knives has just resulted in gangs getting minors to bring knives to fights. The answer we may now have to look at is the fostering and adoption system. At the moment the presumption is in favour of the natural mother but huge resources will be ploughed into supporting her even though the outcome for the child is likely to be bad. If the bar was raised for when a mother would receive this support and more children were put up for adoption at an early stage we would see a reduction in crime in 15 years time.

Gordon Southwell ● 2272d12 Comments

It isn't just parents though - it is grandparents and the wider family.  Grandparents often live miles away and/or may still be working and so unable to support and share care when it is so important that children have a vocabulary with which they can express themselves rather than simply lashing out in frustration.  They need lots of TIME being spoken to and interacting with people rather than lots of material stuff.We are pushing both parents into work when their children are very small and so they are often not able to spend enough quality time with them.  Look at how few men take up their parental leave.  Don't we still have the longest working hours in Europe?  Nurseries are expensive but even so the (English) role models there often do not speak English as well as they ought to.  Children are reaching school age and starting school without being able to understand and follow the teacher's instructions.  This makes teaching a class very difficult.  Without achieving good language skills in their early years these children will never catch up.There are also a growing number not only unable to use a knife and fork but also still in nappies when they start school.  I suspect disposable nappies have also become a lot more comfortable as well as handy in these time-starved times.  The Surestart programme so important for the early years was cancelled as part of the cuts no-one wants to admit have happened..Teenage pregnancies which for so many years were considered to be the cause of enormous continuing social problems are no longer the big problem they were.

Philippa Bond ● 2268d